Remember, the real lady is what’s under the mask.
THIS IS MY FAVORITE MOVIE!
oh tumblr with your superlock and dr. natural and sherwho xD
saw this tip jar at my Dairy Queen today and lost it at tipiosa
urban legends (◠‿◠✿)
scary stories (◕ω◕✿)
creepy things (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*: ･ﾟ✧
paranormal and supernatural things ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* \(◕ヮ◕✿)/ *:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ✧
hearing a noise in the middle of the night *: ･ﾟ✧ヽ(ﾟДﾟ)ﾉ
Why can’t there be a male hooter’s equivalent where male servers are shirtless and highly sexualized for their bodies and looks
Male Strip clubs. You’re thinking of male strip clubs.
No. Not a male strip club. A strip club is a strip…
yo mama jokes don’t work very well here
Im going to work guys. EARNING MY PAYCHECK.
mitaukano said: It’s my damn business when my friend DIED because I didn’t report it, I didn’t do shit because she didn’t want me to but I will not sit back and let that happen again, and as a grown ass person I freaking KNOW BETTER.
Except that every experience is different, and what MAY have worked for your friend may NOT have worked for someone else.
Reporting something does NOT automatically equal saving a life. Not reporting does NOT automatically mean someone will end up dying.
You CANNOT relate every instance of any kind of abuse back to something that was also not your fault. You not reporting her abuse does NOT mean it was your fault she died, or that her death is on your shoulders, or that maybe if you had just reported she’d be alive (because that’s a blame victims and victim-blamers use too, only it sounds more like ‘Maybe if I hadn’t gone out tonight I wouldn’t have been raped’, or ‘Maybe if you didn’t make them mad they wouldn’t have punched you.’) And you CANNOT take that experience and that self-blame and project it onto others who have been abused.
EVERY CASE OF RAPE, SEXUAL ASSAULT, OR ABUSE IS DIFFERENT.
If you were my friend when I had been assaulted and I told you not to say anything and you did say something I would have kicked you completely out of my life, even if it was “for my own safety”, and I would have gotten worse because I would have been openly denying everyone who was prying into my life for details.
Someone else might have thanked you because they were too cowardly and wanted to report but didn’t know how to get the courage and not be scared.
But it is literally impossible to predict ANY outcomes of reporting an attack that not only didn’t happen to you, but you did not witness. IF YOU WERE A WITNESS IT’S A DIFFERENT STORY. My whole argument is about people who don’t see or hear anything about assault or abuse until the victim confides in them.
If you are not or were not EVER a witness to assault or abuse or rape or ANYTHING then you have no place reporting. Zero. If you’re an outsider and you’re afraid for their life then you talk to the victim and encourage them to report, but you do not report.
You cannot decide that someone who has been raped or abused or anything is going to end up in the same tragedy as your friend. You cannot decide that reporting behind their back, or even to their face, will automatically save them. You CAN’T.
BACKING OUT OF SOMETHING BIG A MONTH AND A HALF BEFORE IT HAPPENS WHEN YOU’VE HAD HALF A YEAR SO FAR TO BACK OUT IS THE LITERAL DEFINITION OF THE THING THAT WILL MAKE ME PUNCH A WALL IN